living in darkness..!

While reading "koko ni iru yo" I was thinking that I acted the same as sumino when I felt lonely , I turned to the internet .I think a lot of people would do that because online communication is safe , you can hide behind a user name . So why do we fear facing people ? well this is one question with so many answers .There's those people who have been betrayed and backstabbed by their closest friends so they lost faith and trust , there's others who found themselves in a very embarrassing situations led them to isolation from the rest of the world , or those who have been suffering from being used by others so they just gave up . And lastly but not least the parents , its shocking how parents can ruin their kids lives without knowing it or maybe knowing but not caring . Judging the kids , abusing them , isolating them from the world under the pretext of protecting them , disciplining them in front of strangers or their friends....etc. I think "parents" are number one cause of "social phobia" and loneliness because they think they own the child ,for God sake give your kids a break .